Monday, 31 July 2017

The Month That Was July 2017

July has been a busy old month round these parts. So much has been going on I almost don't know where to start!

We've been counting down to July for what feels like ages now, because the little fella was signed up for a couple of events to raise funds for the two hospital units that saved his life. You can read about those here and here. We have now raised over £800, which is more than £400 for each of the two amazing charities and we are so pleased and proud, and thankful to everyone who has supported us. It means the world to us to be able to give something back.


We had a wedding to attend - a rare occurance these days, as pretty much all our friends are now married. I do love a good wedding! I failed miserably at taking any photos, but we did have a lovely time.

My mum was away in Wales last week, so the husband and I took the week off together to have ourselves a little staycation with the boy. We had a couple of days out, including to the beach and to a castle, and it was so nice to spend a good amount of time together as a family, having fun. We also went to the village library, and the small boy and I joined - I'm quite excited at the prospect of taking him regularly (it's only 5 mins from our house) and encouraging his love of books.


Somewhat less fun was a visit to see my father in law in his care home. It will probably be the last time I, and the small boy, see him - he is very very ill now and doesn't have long left. It makes me so sad that our son will grow up knowing neither of his grandads. But that's life, I guess. We will make sure he knows all about who they were and how much they would have loved him.

Also, in the back of my mind for the last couple of weeks (and by that, I mean it's been on my mind constantly, playing over and over - especially at 3am when there are no distractions) has been work related issues that I think I need to tackle. And by tackle, I mean find a way out. I love the industry I work in, but it becoming clearer and clearer every day that the team I am in and the line manager I have are just not for me. I am not listened to, I am not respected, and I have just about had enough. So, please keep your fingers crossed that I find something else soon before I flip my lid!!



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Tuesday, 27 June 2017

Life Lately

Remember when I used to blog more than once in a blue moon? What on earth did I find to talk about, and how did I find the time to do it???

There's been ever such a lot going on with us, I don't even know where to start. Little dude turned 2 last month (almost 8 weeks ago now - how??) and he definitely got the memo about the Terrible Twos...! Mostly he's lovely, and he makes us laugh every single day... But he is definitely testing boundaries at the moment.

So far this summer, we're actually managing to enjoy some lovely family days out, which is new to us. Previously we've had to be cautious about going to busy places due to the risk of infection, but he's doing so much better these days that we actually can.

We have a few busy weekends in store - in fact, all of July is busy! - because we've got a couple of fundraising events to participate in. At least, the little fella is participating officially and we're along for the ride. This Sunday, he has a one mile walk to do, and the following Sunday is a 70m dash in a very famous athletics stadium that has had world records set within it and world famous athletes have competed there. We are raising money for the two hospital units that saved his life, so as you can imagine it means a great deal to us.

So, what's new with you? What have I missed??

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Monday, 5 June 2017

My new 101 in 1001 list



After the shocking realisation that time was up on my last list, I have been putting together a new set of challenges for the next 1001 days. And, as ever, I am really late posting this! This list started on 1st May 2017, and ends on 27th January 2020.

1 Write a list of 101 things to do in 1001 days! 
2 Make a list of 100 books I would like to read 
3 Read 100 books 
4 Read a book set during Christmas 
5 Read the best 25 children's books for 0-5s with my son 
6 Identify 100 things that make me happy 
7 See 10 classic movies I've never seen 
8 Watch a movie from every year I've been alive 
9 Make a list of my 50 favourite movies 
10 Write on 20 journaling prompts 
11 Write a list of 101 things I’ve already achieved in this lifetime 
12 Write a list of 20 places I want to visit and why
13 List 50 favourite fictional characters 
14 List 101 things I don't ever want to do again 
15 List 10 places I have been, and 10 favourite things about each place 
16 Complete the A-Z travel challenge 
17 Go on a picnic 
18 Spend a day at the beach 
19 Go to the zoo 
20 Visit 2 new holiday parks 
21 Go to 5 different museums 
22 Go to the beach in the winter 
23 Visit 3 different heritage railways 
24 Visit 4 new parks 
25 Visit the National Railway Museum, York (England) 
26 Go for a walk in a forest 
27 Visit Alnwick Castle (England) 
28 Visit Devon (England) 
29 Visit Disneyland Paris (Paris) 
30 Visit Wales 
31 Visit Scotland 
32 Go on a boat ride 
33 Visit the safari park, Longleat (England) 
34 Visit Bolton Abbey (England) 
35 Visit a waterfall 
36 Visit a National Trust site 
37 Visit an English Heritage site 
38 Go to a sporting event 
39 Play crazy golf 
40 Go to a food festival 
41 Start saving to go to Florida 
42 Go up in a hot air balloon  
43 Visit a farm 
44 Jump in puddles 
45 Ride on a carousel 
46 Go to an air show 
47 Build a snowman 
48 Build a sandcastle 
49 Visit a butterfly garden 
50 Decorate our son's bedroom 
51 Landscape the backyard 
52 Declutter my house 
53 Complete a 365 day photo challenge 
54 Get professional family photos taken 
55 Organize photo collection 
56 Take a photo of the view from a tall building 
57 Take a family photo at least 4 times a year 
58 Make a Year in Pictures album 
59 Try 10 new places to eat 
60 Find 20 quick and easy recipes to try 
61 Try a new flavour of ice cream 
62 Bake a cake 
63 Do a sponsored run / walk for charity 
64 Raise money for a charity 
65 Donate to charity 
66 Volunteer for a charity 
67 Send a gift to someone just because 
68 Register as an organ donor 
69 Complete 7 goals in a week 
70 Learn to locate all 50 US states on a map 
71 Create a scrapbook 
72 Quit Facebook for a week 
73 Start a new tradition 
74 Finish my Christmas shopping before December 
75 Go a month without buying anything that isn't a necessity 
76 Try a basic meditation technique 
77 Do a Couch to 5k running plan 
78 Run a 5K 
79 Lose weight 
80 Don't eat chocolate for a week 
81 Learn a new language 
82 Drink more water 
83 Stay in a hotel for a night alone 
84 Get back to pre-baby weight 
85 Update my blog at least once a month 
86 Make 5 playlists on my phone 
87 Make my own Christmas cards  
88 Meet a celebrity 
89 Have a board game night  
90 Design a t-shirt 
91 Go to a wedding 
92 Complete a colouring book 
93 Try a new flavour of coffee 
94 Pick 3 things to start and finish on Instructables.com 
95 Do the Clean Sweep test (http://www.betterme.org/cleansweep.html) and try to improve my score 
96 Meet an online friend in person 
97 Take my son for a day out with no other adults
98 Make an advent calendar
99 Convert LPs to MP3
100 Do something I wouldn't normally do
101 Finish writing another 101 things list by the end of 1001 days 


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Tuesday, 2 May 2017

101 in 1001 - update



It's been such a long time since I looked at this that I hadn't realised my time is up. Oops! And I haven't done very well at all... Oh well! I'm in the process of making a new list, hopefully more achievable as I won't find myself in the midst of a very difficult pregnancy followed by a very difficult birth and infancy of that child. At the time of making this list I really didn't believe we were ever going to succeed at having a baby, so there's a lot of travel on there that, once things changed, had zero chance of happening!

The Challenge:

Complete 101 preset tasks in a period of 1001 days.

 

The Criteria:

Tasks must be specific (ie. no ambiguity in the wording) with a result that is either measurable or clearly defined. Tasks must also be realistic and stretching (ie. represent some amount of work on your part).

 

Why 1001 Days?

Many people have created lists in the past - frequently simple challenges such as New Year's resolutions or a 'Bucket List'. The key to beating procrastination is to set a deadline that is realistic. 1001 Days (about 2.75 years) is a better period of time than a year, because it allows you several seasons to complete the tasks, which is better for organising and timing some tasks such as overseas trips, study semesters, or outdoor activities.

 

Start date: May 26, 2014
End date: Feb 20, 2017


Completed: 31/101

1 Write a list of 101 things to do in 1001 days! 

5 See a movie in IMAX or 3D 9 August 2014
6 Watch 50 films I've never seen before
10 Read a book in a day

18 Write a hand written letter to someone

23 Explore Paris by night

25 Visit one new state

31 Visit a castle

33 Visit a National Park
35 Travel on a steam train
36 Go to the zoo
37 Go to 5 different museums
38 Visit the Palace of Versailles
39 Spend New Year's Eve in another country

43 Go to New York at Christmas time
44 Visit an art museum

49 Visit a theme park I've never been to
50 Go on a road trip without a pre-set destination

54 Start a new blog

61 Send flowers to someone
62 See a musical
63 Gamble in a casino

67 Have a baby
68 Meet an online friend in person
69 Make a Year in Pictures album

74 Make soup
76 Vote in a general election

86 Buy a new guest bed

96 Don't eat chocolate for a week
97 Create a meal planner
98 Sort out my wardrobe and donate any old clothes


Started: (28/101)

The problem here is that I had a very sudden and unexpected arrival of a baby – and the files I used to keep track of these goals were saved on my work PC, which I left one day and then didn’t see again for a year, by which time we’d had a system upgrade and a lot of my documents were vanished. So I have vague memories of doing some of these (for example, making the lists) but I have nothing to show for it.

 

2 See 10 classic movies I've never seen
12 List 50 favourite fictional characters
13 Make a list of 100 reasons I love my husband
14 Make a list of 100 books I would like to read
15 Write a list of 101 things I've already achieved
19 Write on 20 creative writing prompts.
(2/20)
20 Make a list of 101 things that I don't ever want to do again
24 Visit 5 capital cities
(2/5)
27 Write a list of 20 places I want to visit and why
40 List 10 places I have been, and 10 favourite things about each place
42 Complete the A-Z travel challenge
45 Visit 10 local tourist attractions
(2/10)
48 Have a romantic weekend away in a log cabin
55 Photograph 30 different animals
56 Post 10 tutorials on my blog
73 Take a free online class
75 Watch the Super Bowl

80 Make a bucket list for each season
84 Give a handmade gift
85 Eat at 10 new restaurants
87 Learn to locate all 50 US states on a map
91 Learn to identify all the countries on a map
92 Recognize the flags of all EU countries
93 Learn all the elements in the periodic table
94 Learn all 50 US state capitals
95 Learn 50 new things by clicking the random articles button on Wikipedia
99 Start work on the garden
101 Make 10 things I've pinned on Pinterest
(1/5)

 

Totally failed: (41/101)

As mentioned above, surprise early arrival of baby and subsequent health problems he had meant that time to do things and go places was just non-existent.

 

3 Go to an outdoor movie

4 Spend an entire day watching films
7 Watch 10 movies chosen by my husband
8 Choose an actor and watch every film he / she has been in
9 Read 10 classics I should have read but have never got around to
11 Read a biography

16 Write a list of 100 things that make me annoyed
17 Write myself a mail via www.futureme.org

21 Write a fan letter
22 Make a list of things that I like about myself

26 Visit Disney World’s Magic Kingdom

29 See the Northern Lights
30 Visit the Wizarding World of Harry Potter
(again)
32 Visit Ireland
34 Stay in a 5 star hotel

41 Visit The Shard

46 Visit all the locations on a Monopoly board
47 Take a train in mainland Europe
51 Tour a brewery/distillery
52 Climb a mountain
53 Ride the London cable car
57 Document a "day in my life" in photographs
58 Make snow angels
59 Spend a night stargazing
60 Spend a day at the beach
64 Watch a sunset on the beach
65 Watch a meteor shower

66 Say "yes" to something I would not normally do
70 Build a sandcastle
71 Go to a sporting event
72 Have a spa day

77 Take a moonlit walk on the beach
78 Take part in a blog challenge
79 Have a picnic in a forest


81 Win at crazy golf
82 Go up in a hot air balloon
83 Decorate a mug with a sharpie

88 Get my eyes tested
89 Reach my goal weight
90 Complete the 30 Day Shred
100 Grow my own herbs and/or vegetables

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Thursday, 5 January 2017

2017's Plans and Hopes







This is the first year we've started without something big looming on the horizon - be that IVF, the birth of our little handsome boy, or his heart surgery. This year is a completely fresh, clear canvas; ours to do with whatever we choose.

That said, we haven't got much by way of plans for the year. As much as I love making plans and having things to look forward to, it's also quite refreshing having an almost clear slate. Should we decide to be spontaneous, we can.

Our only real plans at the moment are a couple of trips away. We're taking Samson to Thomasland in February, to celebrate the one year anniversary of his heart surgery. He absolutely adores Thomas & Friends (I think it would be fair to say he's actually obsessed!) so hopefully he'll enjoy being in a Thomas theme park. There's a zoo as well, and we've been wanting to take him to a zoo for a while now so we hope he'll enjoy that!

We've also got a midweek break booked at Center Parcs in September. We enjoyed ourselves so much in November that we couldn't wait a whole year to go again!

As for the rest of 2017, I'm hoping that we get to just spend quality time as a family, making special memories, in whatever format it happens to take. It would also be nice if we managed to finally get Samson's bedroom done - he's still in with us at almost 20 months! Which is fine, but it would be good for him to have his own space.

What are your plans for this year?

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